What Are You Waiting For?
By Remez Sasson
What are you waiting for? Do you want to make changes in your life?
Do you constantly tell yourself that if things were different, you could do this and that?
Nothing is going change unless you initiate the change.
Blaming others and blaming circumstances would not make your situation better.
Daydreaming about a different lifestyle, about a vacation, about a new car, or about a new house is not enough. Wishing you were wealthy, healthy or in love, and at the same time, at the back of your mind, not believing you will ever achieve any of these things, would only make the situation worse.
What you feel and believe deep inside you is more powerful than all your resolutions, wishes and daydreaming. You should work on convincing yourself that these things are possible. When you are convinced you act differently.
Start today, not in the future
If you want to make changes in your life, they have to start right now, not in some undefined future. You are cheating and frustrating yourself when you procrastinate when you make empty resolutions, and when you believe that if circumstances were different you would have been able to do this and that.
Now, this very moment is the time to start any change, the smallest one or the biggest one. If you say, "I'll start tomorrow", you are cheating yourself, because tomorrow you will again say the same thing. There will always be another tomorrow, but no change in your life.
Change must start right now, and only you, are responsible for this change. You must devote time and effort, and make plans, and things will start changing.
There is always a subconscious inner resistance to making changes, even if one does not like his or her life. People feel more comfortable with a familiar situation, even if they don't like it. Strange, isn't it?
So, what are you waiting for? Are you going to do something about your life, or just read the article and go on with your life? If you do this, tomorrow will be more or less like today, and the day after too, and so on and on.
If you want to make changes in your life you need to start them now, this very moment, and not tomorrow. So what are you going to do?
You have all the tools here, at this website, for making changes in your life.
Do you need to be motivated? There are articles about motivation at this website.
Do you need willpower and self-discipline to be able to take charge of your life, and follow through with your decisions? There are articles here, and there is a book with exercises.
Do you need powerful tools to make things happen? There are plenty of articles at this website about creative visualization and affirmations, as well as two books, especially devoted to creative visualization and affirmations.